> Please tell me what bra size should I look for?
The metrology of bra sizing often sounds complex, and it is an inexact science
but there are some rules of thumb that you can follow to zero in on things.
First, I'm gonna assume a few things. I'm assuming that you have a more or less normal slender male physique with no significant breast growth, meaning you haven't been on (real, clinical strength) hormones or had implants. Is this correct?
If you google "bra size measurement" you'll get countless how-to pages, not all of them containing the same information and some contradictory. Most of them are variations on this theme:
Measure around your chest under where your boobs will be and add four to the number of inches. If the result is odd, round up to the next even number. Depending on whose book you're reading, this will be called your "bra size", "band size", etc. An example would be the "36" in a 36B bra. This kind of measurement will be fairly consistent among sources and among brands.
Measuring for cup size often sounds complex, but if you don't have any significant breast growth, everything will be forms of some kind, so you have options, mainly, how "boobish" do you want to be?
This is where you'll select the A-B-C-D cup size.
Those who are part-time, not on the transition track, use everything from makeshifts (everything from kleenex to water balloons) to costume-grade forms to clinical grade forms. If you need TG friendly sources of these, ask and you will receive.
> Do you have any other ideas on how I can get a female figure?
We've discussed the top, let's talk about the bottom.
My hunch is, from reading your description, that you'll need little or no waist control, but you will need some help in the hips. Am I correct?
Again, if you're handy you can improvise some padding. If you google, you'll find countless pages that tell you how to take a piece of foam rubber and cut it into the shape of a pork chop, or a map of South America, or a pink triangle, etc. There are also some commercially made undergarments that are specifically for this purpose. Again, if you need some pointers to vendors, ask and you will receive.
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