What's your policy on admirers? Are admirers welcome?
Yes, admirers are welcome. We've always been open to anybody who identifies with the theme of DLV, and who agrees to behave as a lady or a gentleman (or both).
Speaking freely, admirers do have a reputation of coming on very strong, and it is this behavior, not the mere fact that they are admirers, that makes them unwelcome at some TG gatherings.
We have had admirers, both male and female, attend DLV over the years with no issues whatsoever.
Anyone of any gender, orientation, and persuasion will most likely be welcome at DLV as long as they behave appropriately and respect the others who will be present.
Please see our Admirers Guide to DLV for further discussion.
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