by Katie Wilson » Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:10 am
Hi Kumi.
When I did my first D L V in 2002 I was not into posting photos in any way but have become less apprehensive about it since then as time progressed along with my own development and confidence level too.
The system we had back then as I remember it stated that we could veto a pic but not necessarily one with a bunch of others in it who might want to see it stay up in the albums. Maybe this is not correct but I think it is close to it.
I hadn't thought much about a way to improve the 2012 and forward system but just off the top of my head I would say a good starter would be that **When a person puts in a veto of a pic that they had posted then later they became a bit apprehensive about**, or a pic they are in which others may have posted we should leave it up there for 1 month before it is permanently deleted with consideration to those who may also be in the photo and would like to write in and state their wishes to see it stay. We could then write a short polite note to the Vetoing girl and ask if she was dead sure that she wanted it to be deleted and to please consider those who were also in the photo before making a final decision.
As I attended more and more DLV's I just left all of the photos I had posted up and even though on second glance I looked quite abysmal in them it didn't seem to matter as much as when I was new to it all. New girls think totally differently from the experienced ones and the fear of exposure is quite traumatic to them, I can still remember it quite well myself because it wasn't all that long ago.
I am sure if we all give this some thought that we can come up with a revised version of this with some modifications to prevent hurt feelings etc and yet still keep a good supply of great memorable photos in the DLV archives. We are obviously a bit short in attendance this year and consequently in the piccy department too as opposed to other years and it would be a shame to be on the downslope and not act on it.
I hope this helps and prevents some from vetoing a possibly really nice D L V memory for them when they look at back editions of DLV later in life.! I can look back at mine now and smile when I see the friends I made along the way especially those which show the girls who have not attended since those pics were taken.
I think that the system the way it is right now makes it a bit too easy to delete a nice pic which would enhance our Albums in a good way and slowing that process down a little might be a good fix.
Thanks Kumi.
Huggers Katie