The End.... A new day ahead

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This posting is from: LeeAnna
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Hi all,

The debate of what is right and what is wrong with activities and dates
at DLV 2004 should now be a dead subject. We have all had our time to
input our well worded thoughts and needs, express our frustrations for
not realizing about mothers day, vent steam and spleens, state what we
feel to be in bad or questionable taste, and have our regrets about
dates and holidays. The energy spent during this exercise has been
enough to run all of the lights in Vegas for at least a day. We have
used the Democratic process (thanks Annie for allowing this... :+) to
have gotten several workable plans out there to make us as happy as we
can be about the dates.

I see the same thing happening with DLV that has happened to EVERY other
TG group I have been attached to. Rules are set, some feel that they
can only function because of the rules, others disagree, feelings get
hurt along with distrust setting in, and then dysfunction and apathy.

Lets be the exception to this rule. The rules have to be set because a
few have not and do not understand or even care about decorum of a
CD/TG/TS in public. This has happened to DLV. Not a bad thing if we all
do not let it start to run our beloved DLV down the road to having to
have the TG police running it. I know we are all mature enough to not
let this happen.... remember, we are sisters that support each other
because not many others will or do. We girls just want to have fun! We
need to act as a family group..... well, like a functional family
group, not like the Simpson's or Married With Children ...lol

As a group, we have a large portion that are old hands (experience, not
age...giggle) at being out and handling the experience well... and then
there are the new sisters that want to be out but have apprehension and
will agree with most safer ideas and mindsets. That's OK, that's just
like a family. We just need to accept the differences just like
sisters, brothers, Mom and dad do..... and get along with daily life.

I vote to have the DLV2004 outing start the Saturday before for those of
us that can't stay the whole time. There will be many of us there... I
have always come in a few days before and see many sisters at pre
activities. Its fun and then when the others get into town, the party
just keeps on rolling.... and then there is always Cat who is up to a
good party any time....giggle...hugs sweetie.

Lets pull up are garters, freshen our makeup, get our hair looking good
enough to break hearts and be as good as we can be..... and just have
fun.

With respect and hugs, LeeAnna

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