That is a tough one. On the party scale I am an 8, but what makes it difficult to answer is the fact that I have now been clean and sober for 14 years. Sober does not mean dead or dying, it just means I don't drink. But I love to have fun and laugh as much as I ever did or maybe even more.
On the dress scale I am very casual during the day. Jeans, t-shirt and sandals (shorts if weather allows. Evening changes a bit with the makeup and something really cute and just short of revealing with a nice pair of low heels. I have a few very cute dresses but am more of a pants girl. Give me a reason and I can dress with the best.